They just don’t get it
I swear guys sometimes can be so dense. Well maybe not sometimes. I probably should lump all guys into one phrase but honestly, with the exception of a small handful…..they are dense. This morning I had an “arguement” with this guy i’ve been chatting with for only a short time. I ran into him online and we had a lot in common and hit it off pretty well. I don’t mind meeting new people online. I’ll IM anyone as long as they don’t start offending me or getting all graphic and stuff. Seriously, if a guy asks me how big my boobs really are in the first 10mins….they are not someone I want to talk to long term. They are only after 1 thing and this store is closed. haha So this guy i’ve been chattin gwith was cool. Until this morning that is. That last few weeks I’ve been crazy busy. working tons of hours and when I’m not working I’m sleeping. I mean, working from 7am to 11pm would wipe you out too wouldn’t it? Needless to say I haven’t been on my various IM’s lately. It’s to distracting when I’m trying to get things done. The last few days I’ve had to use my laptop at work b/c my desktop caught a virus and goes pop up crazy. I guess my IM logged in automatically b/c this guy pops up with a message about how if I really didn’t want to talk to him then I should have said so and not let him think that i wanted to. “what???” I know I haven’t been online much but i do have a cell phone with unlimited texts. He has texted me several times and I always respond. I may not respond righ that second but I’m a texting queen and I ALWAYS respond. Ok ok….there may be a couple times i don’t. Now with this guy, I would respond to him and then he would never respond back. Did he expect me to just keep messaging him over and over with out getting anything back from him?? I’m not a big fan of one sided conversations. Anyways we got into it b/c he was making comments about how it shouldn’t be so hard to meet someone and all that. I’m a single mom who has no family in the area. i already pay daycare during the day, sometimes I just don’t have the extra money to pay someone so i can go out at night. Not to mention it’s next to impossibl eto find someone last minute. Most everyone else has made plans of their own so planning in advance is a must. Also, I’m exhausted these days. So really, I just dn’t feel like it. Yet he tried to make me feel bad about all that. Seriously…they just dont’ get it!! And I think I’m going to add him to my list of ones that I’m not intereste din long term. If he can’t have patience or understanding now………I just don’t see it going well for the future.
